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Bisexuals and Mixed Orientation Marriages

Do you have questions or concerns about bisexual feelings or fantasies?

Are you trying to sort out and explore your sexual identity? Does it feel like your sexual identity is fluid or just doesn't fit the categories? Are you concerned because your partner/spouse is bisexual?

Are you in a mixed orientation marriage? Mixed orientation relationships are those in which your sexual identity/orientation differs from your partner's. An example is a bisexual man married to a straight (heterosexual) woman.

Aren't bisexuals just closet gays (trying to play it straight)? This is one of the most common myths about bisexuals. Another myth is that bisexuals can never settle down and be happy with a single partner of either sex. In fact, many bisexuals are monogamous in healthy, satisfying long-term relationships. The myths about bisexuality are damaging to all concerned.

As a monogamous bisexual man, I understand the challenges and difficulties of being bisexual. And I know how shame about sex can damage relationships.

My goal is to help individuals and couples talk honestly, grow in their understanding of their sexual identity, heal their shame, negotiate healthy boundaries and new ways of being together, and decide if they will continue in relationship together.

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