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Mistaking Sex for Intimacy

Mistaking Sex for Intimacy — Making Amends WARNING: ADULT CONTENT In 2012, after a long stretch of unhappiness and depression, I began actively exploring the intersection of spirituality with erotic energy, sex, and intimacy. My quest was not just another … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 33

A Queer Holy Week WARNING: ADULT CONTENT Tonight, after church, I watched a video of a Quaker discussing how Jesus affirms her queerness.* As friends say, she speaks my mind. Most of my adult life, I have thought of myself … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 32

Asking for Enough WARNING: ADULT CONTENT I did not blog for a couple of days. No time to write—I’ve been busy having in-body experiences and dancing with Kali! In the past few weeks I have explored how I block myself … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 27

Beyond Comfort Zones WARNING: ADULT CONTENT I like it so much when things fit my agenda. You know, like when I say I’m going to write every day for 40 days, and find the inspiration and clarity of mind to … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 24

Man On Strike WARNING: ADULT CONTENT Today I had set aside most of the day for various projects I wanted to work on. But other than my morning walk, I did nothing productive all day. For several weeks I’ve been … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 23

More Stuff from the Shadows WARNING: ADULT CONTENT Over the last 23 days of Lent, I have been digging around in the shadows of my life searching for whatever is blocking pleasure. Along the way I have recognized that it … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 20

Walk or Journey? WARNING: ADULT CONTENT I just read over the last 19 days of my blog. Today is the half-way point for my 40 days of Lent. I like my journey and what I have written so far. I … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 11

Shedding Lies for Lent WARNING: ADULT CONTENT The Information Age sucks. It’s really not information, it’s more like a flood of misinformation. I’m sick of all of the lies and misinformation about everything! First it’s Al-Qaeda, then ISIS, now back … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 9

Listening to Intuition WARNING: ADULT CONTENT Okay, so sleep is important. I’ve been doing lots of good body stuff, but coming up short on sleep. So today after lunch I took a nap. It helped. Got into my body work … Continue reading

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Forty Blogs for Forty Days of Lent – Day 7

Touching into New Places WARNING: ADULT CONTENT I want to free myself to follow the leading of spirit into new territory. To the places where I will encounter the radical Jesus. Who is the radical Jesus? The one who taught … Continue reading

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